Can Someone Wear Another's Medal in the UK?

Have you ever found yourself asking, 'Is it possible to wear the medals of another, perhaps even a father’s, at a Remembrance service?' In the United Kingdom, the use of medals is governed by strict protocols that generally discourage the wearing of medals that are not personally earned. However, there are notable exceptions, especially in commemorative contexts like Remembrance Day services.

General Protocol in the UK

In the UK, it is considered improper and, in some cases, against the law to wear medals that were not personally awarded to you. This extends to even a father's medals, unless specific permissions are granted. The Decorations Awards and Medals department in Whitehall oversees the regulations concerning the display and use of medals. Wearing someone else’s medals can lead to legal consequences, including fines or confiscation.

Exceptions and Exemptions

However, there are exceptions, particularly in commemorative contexts:

Family Members

Close relatives, such as children or spouses, can wear the medals of deceased service members often in memory of them, especially during remembrance events.

Permission

Individuals can receive explicit permission from the rightful owners of the medals, if they are still living, or from the family of the deceased veteran to wear the medals.

Guidelines

The Ministry of Defence and various veterans associations provide guidelines that emphasize respect and propriety in the wearing of medals.

Contemporary Context and Stories

These protocols remain relevant even in the contemporary context, where military operations are frequent. Here are some examples:

Contemporary Perspectives on Wearing Medals

Beyond the historical context, the UK has seen a situation where an unusual set of "incredible" medals was worn. In 2013, WO2 Gary O’Donnell, an Army bomb disposal expert, who died in Afghanistan, had his bravery medals auctioned off to provide for his widow and children. This auction attracted considerable public interest and attention, highlighting the historical significance of these awards.

A Case of Misuse

Another interesting case involves Roger Day, a man who wore an unauthorized set of medals to a Remembrance Day service. Day was sentenced to 60 hours of community service and branded a “Walt” (a term for someone who fantasizes about heroic actions), after pleading guilty to unlawfully using military decorations. His incorrect and unproperly worn medals only added to the ridicule he faced.

A Story of Permission and Humor

In a more lighthearted and humorous note, a fictional story can illustrate the protocols. At an army barrack mess, a Sergeant makes an excuse to wear his grandfather's VC, while another soldier is tasked with wearing his grandfather's Knights cross. This humorous tale underscores the serious nature of these rules and the importance of respecting them in a serious context.

Conclusion

In conclusion, while it is possible for someone to wear another person's medals under certain circumstances, it typically involves a personal connection to the original medal holder and an understanding of the associated protocols. The use of medals is a solemn and formal practice, and violations can lead to legal and reputational consequences.